Dating communicating needs
Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. Is a lack of fluid and lively conversation a sign that it’s over between you? For men, talking is the tool they use to get a point across in order to achieve a goal or solve a problem.
The first year was bliss, the second year was also bliss but with some insecurities thrown in. Men mainly get their dose of intimacy through touching, sex, and physically doing things for their woman.
This question just doesn’t trigger a response in him.
You’ll notice a man rarely says, “bad.” This is because if a man’s day was bad, he’s not going to want to talk about it.
It’s not his need, so he’s not going to initiate action.
It’s your need so it’s your job to initiate a change.
He’s not going to get bored with you because you don’t talk “enough.” “Enough” to him are the words he needs in order to get a job done. As long as he’s doing things for you physically, he’s taking care of his need for intimacy. It’s up to you to take responsibility for the need to communicate in your relationship.My #1 Relationship Mistake I had an unusual childhood.My dad was the number one self-help author of all time and the world's leading relationship expert.The first question is asking him about his feelings and experience of the day.Women can talk for hours on this subject but a man usually limits his answer to one word, “good” “fine” or “okay.” He’s not purposely being difficult.