Dating someone with a baby mama
We currently have the child with us (Temporary Court Order), he calls me mom and I have never treated him any different from my three. Anonymous Stephan’s Side Note: Sometimes we are so busy holding on to the past that we can’t even notice the blessings in the present.This woman had not forgiven her husband for how he had handled the situation and for simply having to deal with all of this.Baby momma drama gives single fathers a bad name from the jump, even if they have none.Many women prefer not to even bother taking a chance on falling in love with a man that has a child because of the fear that the child's mother will attempt to make her life a living hell.Rather than see that finally things could be resolved and that things would be much better, the frustration of the last few years had her prepared to take a position of payback (which she perceived as tough love).Tough Love comes from a good place but the reality is this was coming from negative emotions.
She went from dating men to women and then back to men again.
They stayed together during her pregnancy and a little over a year after that. Honestly, we hooked up a few times during both of our relationships with other people (always safe) but that was up until he told me about the other baby.
My husband is a “Stand Up Guy” who filed Child Support on himself shortly after we split and he had his third child added as soon as he was born (he & Rebound were still together). We got back together maybe a month or so after he split with Ms. A year later we got married and one year after that we had our third child together. They were supposed to have a mutual agreement as far as the child was concerned. Rebound knew the only way to get to my husband was through their son.
This would have only caused issues in her marriage and pushed her husband away when he needed her by his side.
She should openly and calmly express how she feels to her husband.